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Ask Anna is a sex column. Because of the nature of the topic, some columns contain language some readers may find graphic. I go down on my girlfriend, as she can't climax during intercourse.
Updated: July 30, References. Many men find oral sex to be a sensual and intimate part of lovemaking, but not all women are readily open to giving it or receiving it until there is some discussion to address their fears and put them at ease. It can feel uncomfortable or even awkward to start the conversation, but talking about intimate matters with your partner will help build trust and intimacy even if she's initially opposed to the idea.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. How do I learn to go down on a girl for the first time?
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I started going out with my girl friend 18 months ago. We are now very much in love, but one thing still upsets me. I love the intimacy of it, and I have to admit that I probably like both giving and receiving equally.
My girlfriend and I recently started trying out oral sex. When it comes to going down on your girlfriend, there are a few key factors that can contribute to your and her success. It goes without saying: the best way to enjoy sex is to be comfortable.
I want to talk about oral sex, but am afraid of how my girlfriend will react if I bring up the subject. How should I talk about it? Talk about it like you talk about anything and everything else.
You'd think that being a woman, giving oral sex to another girl would be easy. You know where all the parts are, how they work, and you've had people go down on youso it shouldn't be too hard to figure out, right? As a bisexual woman I can tell you that blow jobs are way easier than cunnilingus. While there are, of course, lots of different ways to give a blow job and every guy is different the basic mechanics are not too hard to figure out, mainly because guy parts are all on the outside.